I’m a day late, but I wanted to participate in this link-up! The prompt is asking bloggers to share the story behind their blog name:
My current blog is actually the second blog I’ve ever created. I decided to deactivate the first one after I started developing my career in Graduate School…I didn’t want client’s to be able to Google me and find my personal blog. Awkward!
So I switched formats (from Blogger to WordPress) and created a new blog, one that wasn’t attached to my full legal name.
I took the opportunity of starting a new blog to also create a new title. My current title is actually part of a quote that I very much relate to:
This quote first came to me when I was searching for “positive deployment quotes” when my husband was first deployed, back in 2010.
I’m a huge advocate of keeping a positive mindset during deployment, I think its is one of the major things that can help military spouses not only survive deployments, but to thrive.
There is no denying that there are many negative things about deployments, and I promise you, if you focus on them the time will drag by and you will likely be unhappy for most of that time.
On the other hand, if you look beyond those negative things, you can actually have a shot at happiness during deployment. A positive attitude makes the time fly by so much faster than wallowing in the misery and loneliness. A positive attitude helps your spouse maintain focus on deployment, since they aren’t worried about you or feeling additional guilt for your unhappiness.
The quote choice is also the reason why I chose the cover photo that I currently have, it was from my husband’s first homecoming from Afghanistan.
The smiles say it all.
Military life can be filled with many “imperfections”, but there are also many beautiful moments, like homecomings.
So I choose to be happy. Not because my life is perfect (there are deployments, trainings, work-ups, etc.), but because I chose to see the positives in my life and look beyond the imperfections.